Wednesday, April 30, 2014

when LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP is OVER then we're so HAPPY

OH DAMN!!! i'm on it now!
It's so hard! its so suck! need a lot of patience! ketika kita udah komit ngejalanin hubungan terpisah jarak, ketika itu juga kita masuk ke dalam dunia yang bergelombang. Kadang kita ngerasa bahagiaaaaa banget dan kadang untuk beberapa hari kita ngerasa dunia mulai runtuh dan gk bersahabat. Lucu ya, kalau dipikir-pikir ternyata bener perasaan bisa ngalahin akal pikiran kita. Dalam hubungan jarak jauh, hidup ini menjadi terkotak. Ada kalanya gue ngerasain hidup bareng dia dan tanpa dia. Kalau diinget-inget gue punya sahabat yang bisa dibilang sering ngejalanin LDR, dan saat itu juga gue dan sahabat gue lainnya gak akan pernah tahu seperti apa sosok pasangannya, kita sebagai sahabat juga sering curiga kalau sahabat gue yg LDR ini nyiptain sendiri pasangannya. Ini karna kita-kita sbagai sahabat gk mau aja sahabat kita hidup dalam hubungan yang semu dan pastinya kepo feeling kita udah pada mendidih hihihihi...
Ketika pasangan kita dateng dan kita jemput doi di stasiun atau airport entah kenapa jantung rasanya deg-degan padahal itu pertemuan udah lebih dari 50an. Disaat-saat begini entah kenapa rasanya kaya di-PDKTin lagi. duuhhhh duh duh.. dan setelah berbulan-bulan kami berhasil menjalani LDR, hingga tiba waktunya gue keterima kerja di daerah tempat pacar gue tinggal. Tuhannnnn terimakasih sebanyak-banyaknya sudah menyatukan kami berdua dalam satu kota.
Hingga saat ini kita berdua sama-sama kerja dan nabung untuk biaya pelaminan. Buat yang baca post ini gue cuma mau nyampein 'percayalah, kalau emang dia jodoh yang Tuhan kirim buat kita, mau seberat apapun masalah yang dateng silih berganti tiada henti pasti salah satu dari kita bakalan selalu  ngalah dan bertahan sampai hati keduanya luluh'
Ya, hubungan jarak jauh mungkin ditakdirkan. Kita gk bisa selamanya terus menerus ngejalanin itu. Tapi selama kita berdua ngejalanin LDR, kita saling belajar untuk sama-sama bersabar dan berjuang. 

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Lessons in Life

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's okay to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's okay to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.
17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.
18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over-prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five years, will this matter?"
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
35. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.
38. Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.
41. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
42. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
45. The best is yet to come.
46. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
47. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
48. If you don't ask, you don't get.
49. Yield.
50. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.

- Regina Brett The Plain Dealer, Cleveland